Let’s be honest—the classic image of wealth passing from parents to 2.5 kids in a white picket fence home doesn’t reflect reality for a huge number of us. Modern families are beautifully, complexly blended. Stepchildren, former spouses, shared assets, and multiple households are the new normal. And that means old-school estate planning? It can fall painfully short. Here’s the deal: intergenerational wealth planning for blended families isn’t just about who gets the china. It’s a…